A Few Tips on How to Get Your Ex Back in Your Life

So, she’s sitting next to you, tears marked in a semi-permanent fashion by the running mascara on her cheeks. She’s telling you everything. She’s telling about the real story of her and her boyfriend and putting a confirmation or denial to all the rumors that you’ve heard over the last couple of years. Some of these details shock you. Some of these details are exactly what you thought they were, but you had no proof.

And then you get to his story, from her point of view. Somewhere in there might be a recitation of details of how he started out as a prince charming in a 1982 Trans Am who evolved to being a comic book collector with aspirations towards getting his Volvo fixed. And then there was the case of the wandering. It could be emotional infidelity, like when he was starting to use her credit card to subscribe to pornographic websites, or even worse, cheating on your spouse type of websites.

But then after having said all that, she utters those words that make your eyes do back flips. She says I want my ex back and I am getting back with ex boyfriend and I am going to take him back and then I’ll make him pay. Or words to that effect. Again, you’re best being a listener and don’t engage yourself to assisting with any nefarious plot. You might be one on the other hand, devising this nefarious plot. But if you want her to try to get back with her ex, those will have to be put on the side. If she wants to try to get back, you’ve got to help her, or else help her see the wrongness of that decision.

If they are of a new age bent, maybe they’ll be wanting to light candles and conjure up good spirits and peaceful vibes to re-seduce the guy (or girl as the case may be) and start out on a different level, reducing the infidelity to a minor irritant on a long journey. Whether or not you believe in voodoo, it can be an occasion for having her exist in a space that is not completely inhabited by his spirit.

Love potions and love spells will be one way in which the chi of the relationships gets readjusted. Red colored paper, calligraphic printing, rose colored glass, it allows for two girls to draw in all of the mystical energy that creates positive vibes. Or not, as the case may be.

And that point is where the infidelity or the indiscretion is forgiven, and the partners can either move towards starting a new life or move back towards giving the relationship a new start. It’s enviable when it works, and it’s a long shot, but it’s one worth taking.